Just wanted to send a quick update on lab results from our baby. The doctor called us last week to let us know that there were no chromosome abnormalities with the baby. It was just a common miscarriage. We were so relieved to hear that everything was fine but just sad that it wouldn't take. Since they did a chromosome test, they were able to tell us the sex of the baby. We didn't think it would be possible to tell, but they told us it was a little girl. It became so much more real for Travis and I knowing that it was a girl but it gave us closure. Since the call, it has made moving on a little bit easier. Everyday is a better day for us!
On another note, I was watching the TODAY show yesterday, and one of their stories was the common cause of miscarriage. It was amazing to hear of other women's stories and how they overcame their miscarriage. You don't realize how common miscarriages are and how often they occur until you talk to someone about your own. There is a group of women that are opening their voices about miscarriages and how all women that experience the pain of losing a child still need their time to grieve. From a personal standpoint, I think it's even harder when you have seen the baby and the heartbeat and then lose your baby. You start developing a bond so early on and it's such a part of you.
We have started looking at the positives that this miscarriage brought to Travis and I and that's what makes us stronger. We know God has a better plan for us and that's who we have to put our faith in.
Thanks for all of you who pray for us. We love you!
Mary
